Dragging myself to the goal finishline

Reaching goals on autopilot

I’m so excited for the new year! But obviously resolutions really aren’t my thing anymore. Goals, however, are a different story. I set goals all the time—and I want to try to achieve my goals on autopilot this year.

That doesn’t mean coasting through the year, or setting absurdly low goals so I can achieve them, though. I kind of beasted Nano 2011, and—especially the first week—I managed to do this without the world falling down around the ears. I’m the mom, of course, and I set the pace of the household. I do most of the housework. So how did I write 5000-6000 words a day (hours and hours of work) without running out of meals and clean underwear for the family?

Planning.

I was already used to one very useful phone alarm: a 15 minute warning to the time we need leave for Hayden’s school. So I decided to expand on that and use the phone alarm to remind me to do laundry (and switch it, fold it, and hand it off to the kids to put away), work with the kids to empty the dishwasher, read with the kids, start dinner and go to bed on time.

Dinners were also planned: I took the calendar for the month and planned out our meals. Since I knew I’d be working hard, I focused on quick meals, slow cooker meals, meals I’ve squirreled away in the freezer, and family favorites. Themed nights were also big helps. It took a couple hours to write it out, but then for the rest of the month, meal planning was handled and I could just look at the calendar to make out my shopping list.

Even blog posts (on four blogs!) were planned the month in advance. Topics and dates went on the calendar. I made up post drafts for each of those days with the topics all ready to go. I stockpiled topics and full posts. On weekends, I filled in the remaining posts and scheduled them to go.

It actually went really well—until I finished my novel. And then I let a lot of it fall apart. But all that advanced planning helped me to maintain a good routine, be productive and run the house better than I usually did.

So how can that apply to other goals?

Schedule them now.

If you want to write 1000 words a day, pick a time and put it in your schedule. (Doing it at the same time each day can help, too.) Unplug from the Internet. Schedule a time with the fewest kids distractions around. I’ve used a handy plugin that would block certain time-wasting websites during certain times of the day—another helper.

If you want to read a certain number of books next year, start collecting recommendations. Figure out whether you prefer reading on an eReader/mobile device (if you have one) or paper book. I like library books since they come with built-in deadlines—and, oh yeah, they’re free.

If you’re trying to research a project, make a list of resources, get them and give yourself a timeline to read them.

If you want to lose weight, schedule your exercise sessions with yourself. Make up healthy meal plans in advance. Buy and prepare healthy snacks.

We all know that goals should to be broken down into steps to be achievable. But what it really comes down to is to just do it, to quote Nike. Little reminders and baby steps help me.

What does it take to help you just do it?

Photo by Kent Wein

7 thoughts on “Dragging myself to the goal finishline”

    1. I guess I should say I didn’t plan too much on the daily planning stuff. I don’t do well with overly rigid schedules, either. I just used little reminders (half a dozen a day, maybe) in my phone to get up, put laundry in one machine or the other, have the kids do their chores—and get back on task ๐Ÿ˜‰ .

      Oh, and I really liked using Focus Booster on my computer to, well, focus for a set amount of time.

  1. I’ve sort of got plans for how I want my year to go…it’s on a weekly basis, really, not daily. But also am leaving room to wriggle about should I wish to. hehe

  2. This is such good advice. I have actually made this a goal of mine this new year. I’m going to plan more in advance instead of being such a fly by the seat of my pants kind of gal. We will see how that can help me not feel like I’m losing my mind

  3. Measurable, achievable goals are the only way to actually make a difference in your future. I have done this to lose weight and it worked. The shedding of pounds was in of itself a booster, but to have a goal to reach for was the only thing to keep me going. I love this posting, because it is so true.

  4. I really need to plan my day better as well. One of my goals for the new year is to manage my time better. Let’s hope I can do it! Good luck with yours!! ๐Ÿ˜€

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