Presumably, most people reading this blog are dreaming about publishing their writing. Hey, me too. But this week, I was thinking about one of my writing friends whose bio talks about her many dreams. Her dreams of publishing are coming true now, but her other dreams—which have also come true!—included such disparate things as becoming an opera singer and dancing ballet. Yep.
Publishing is one of my dreams, and the one I’m working hardest to pursue right now. (You know, outside of my family life and the battle against the mess.) But I have other dreams, too.
One of my dreams isn’t really a secret, but I don’t think the people I’ve shared it with realize that I’m actually serious. I want to be in a band. Really. I don’t want to storm the charts and sell gold records. My dream doesn’t even require recording or writing original songs. A cover band is great: I would love to perform my favorite songs from my favorite artists.
This dream isn’t that far fetched. I’ve played the piano for 20 years and have a decent singing voice. Virtually my entire family is musically talented. I even know what venues we’d play and how to get in. In fact, the biggest problems are that 1.) we don’t have a drummer and 2.) we live thousands of miles apart.
But if we do get to live closer to one another, I have every intention of doing this. I’m even working on our set list. You know, whenever I think of it (3-4 times a year).
I think I would be remiss here if I didn’t mention my family as one of my dreams. While I’m already living that dream, and it’s definitely not easy all the time, it’s probably the more important and more valuable than all my other dreams combined.
I have smaller dreams, too—more like goals, really. Things like not killing every plant in my garden one year, having a lovely home, and designing a few pieces of knitwear (I have the ideas and knitting ability, but not the design skill yet). Things I’ll all (probably) do—someday, one thing at a time.
And then there are the more fleeting, flitting, wouldn’t-it-be-nice-if ones: becoming an FBI agent (yeah, because that’s something you undertake lightly, uh huh), getting back into Irish dance, recording a few original arrangements with my family, becoming a fantastically awesome quilt artist (never having made a quilt myself, or even seen an art quilt up close, LOL). These are more of the things I think “that would be so coooool!!” about, but realistically probably won’t make a priority any time soon.
So, what are your other dreams? Are they attainable? Are you going to pursue them, or do you just enjoy the idea?
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A band would be cool, and I don’t think the “thousands of miles apart” issue might not be as big of an issue anymore. There are lots of cool bands on YouTube who record each part separately and then stitch them together, and even some talented individual artists who record all the parts themselves. I don’t know what your musical tastes are, but you could check out Pomplamoose on YouTube.
And your concern about a drummer reminds me of a joke:
Person 1: How many drummers does it take to change a light bulb?
Person 2: I don’t know.
Person 1: None. They have machines that do that now.
Have fun chasing your dreams.
LOL, John. True, true, and that would be fun, too—but not a substitute for performing live for an audience.
Now I’m thinking I need some cooler dreams like yours . . . 🙂
My dream right now is to get the house and yard fixed up. Problem is, I’m not a big fan of, well, fixing up a house . . . but I did get my daughter’s room painted yesterday, so that’s progress!
Let’s see . . . I’d like to go to Hawaii someday. That would be fun.
Oh, fixing up my house would be so nice! Clearly it’s not on my priority list (you would be able to tell this if you saw my home).
Next time, I’m just buying a nice home to begin with, LOL.
Hey Jordan. That Gift card would make a huge dent in my Christmas shopping. What an awesome prize